How a family's intervention can make or break an addiction

A person addicted to alcohol and/or drugs may be dependent on the substance for a number of reasons. A full fledged addict is sure to have a scroll of excuses that explain their current predicament. Regardless of the cause or reason, the result has led to addiction, a disease capable of destroying the strongest individual.

Freedom from addiction may seem impossible for someone who has been using for an extended period of time. Although they often try, addicts usually have limited or no success at treating the problem by themselves. Nine times out of ten, they have exhausted their personal efforts to escape the despair that they feel. The addict knows that they are drowning; addiction has stripped them of confidence and clouded all rationale. The only thing they seem capable of doing effectively is maintaining the habit.

Family members are encouraged to be involved in the intervention process, but we do recommend that they do so with caution. The addict may have surrendered during a bad episode or under duress and is still susceptible to relinquishing. They need continuous support and love to encourage them. Family and friends can be of tremendous help to their loved one, providing encouragement during this critical time of confusion, fear, and loss. Because of the fragile nature of the person seeking help, there are some recommended precautions that those helping need be aware. The last thing we want is to have him or her slip back into their destructive lifestyle.

INSENSITIVITY
It is very common for an addict to become alienated from his or family due to their disreputable lifestyle. An addiction has the capacity to inspire a person to lie, cheat, and steal in order to score the next fix. They may even physically challenge their loved ones to pick up the substance that they crave. Family may resent all the things that they have been subjected to with the addict. The addict is suffering from an insidious disease. If he or she is able to obtain the help that they need, families must be very careful of their words. Conversations are liable to become intense in the midst of a heated dispute. Regardless of the facts, belittling the addict with cruel remarks about their habit is never a healthy situation. If anything, it will make matters worse and drive them back to the drug that crippled their judgment in the first place.

ENDING NOTE
An ongoing battle with addiction is hard on the user, but also takes its toll on the family. Nonetheless, friends and relatives faithfully committed to helping a loved one must remain diligent in their efforts that the addict seeks help from rehabilitation sources. We advocate for not giving up on the addict even when they have given up on themselves.



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